People are people

Attitude. All humans have this. In your everyday life, have you been annoyed by people who are careless not thinking how they hurt other people the way they are?

Just today I am very disappointed with a friend who wanted to talk about bad things about others. I don’t know if such conversation delights him, but for me, it really makes me feel bad. So I ended up hanging the phone and told him to cut short of the topic and for us to speak again when he already have something nice to say. But later on, I had a second thought that I should have not got mad at him and respect his opinion. Though if I never speak to him the way I did, he would do the same thing over and over again.

We have different preference on the way we wanted other people to treat us but of course we can’t blame them. We should consider their personal experience and environment too. They are a reflection of the society where they belong. What makes them special is the way they are.
Each of us is special and conflicts arise when things are not amenable for two parties concerned.

Our culture separates us from one another. It is not always advisable to be polite as all times for we are just human beings with feelings too. Though we should also consider that we are students of life and learning is a hard and continuous process. As a child of life, we should have broader understanding of people.

A positive attitude towards life is really a good thing. But we should also remember that negative attitude refines and critic our flaws to be a better person. That is how the balance of nature works.